Contributing Editor
James Whitfield

James Whitfield is a contributing editor at Evermore. His work focuses on speeches and vows from the groom's side of the wedding party: best man and groomsman toasts, father-of-the-bride and father-of-the-groom speeches, brother-of-the-couple moments, and the groom's own vows. He writes for the speakers who tend to overthink the opening joke and underthink the ending, and aims to make both easier.
James's pieces focus on the moments most groom-side speakers worry about — the opening joke that lands, the toast that doesn't drag, the vow that sounds like the person actually saying it. If a blank page is the problem, the Evermore speech generator can give you a starting draft to revise from.
Areas of focus
- Best man speeches
- Groomsman toasts
- Father-of-the-bride speeches
- Father-of-the-groom speeches
- Groom's vows
20 published guides on Evermore.
Articles by James

Best Man Speeches · April 4, 2026
Best Man Speech Examples: Funny, Short & Heartfelt Templates
Funny, short, and heartfelt best man speech examples plus a simple template, tips for writing your own, and delivery advice so you nail it on the day.

Best Man Speeches · April 4, 2026
How to Write a Best Man Speech: Ultimate Step-by-Step Guide
Everything you need to write a best man speech from scratch — structure, examples, humor tips, delivery advice, and common mistakes to avoid.

Best Man Speeches · April 4, 2026
Funny Best Man Speech Ideas: Clean Jokes, Lines & Examples
Clean jokes, funny lines, and examples to make your best man speech entertaining without crossing any lines.

Best Man Speeches · April 4, 2026
Short Best Man Speech Examples: Simple, Funny & Heartfelt
Simple, funny, and heartfelt short best man speech examples plus a template and tips for keeping your speech short, confident, and memorable.

Best Man Speeches · April 4, 2026
Best Man Speech Template: The Ultimate Fill-in-the-Blank Guide
Use this best man speech template to write a funny, heartfelt, and well-structured toast. Includes fill-in-the-blank examples, tips, and what to avoid.

Wedding Vows · April 5, 2026
Wedding Vows for Her: Romantic, Short, Funny & Simple Examples
Romantic, short, funny, and simple wedding vows examples for her, plus a personalizable template and tips for writing vows that actually sound like you.

Father of the Bride · April 8, 2026
Father of the Bride Speech Examples: Funny, Short & Heartfelt
Funny, short, and heartfelt father of the bride speech examples plus a simple template, tips for personalizing your speech, and delivery advice.

Father of the Bride · April 8, 2026
How to Write a Father of the Bride Speech: Ultimate Step-by-Step Guide
A complete step-by-step guide to writing a father of the bride speech — structure, tips, examples, what to avoid, and how to deliver it confidently.

Father of the Bride · April 8, 2026
Father of the Bride Speech Template: Fill-in-the-Blank Guide
A practical father of the bride speech template with fill-in-the-blank wording, multiple tone options, and tips to make it sound personal.

Father of the Groom · April 16, 2026
Father of the Groom Speech Examples: Funny, Short & Heartfelt
Funny, short, and heartfelt father of the groom speech examples, plus toast ideas, opening and closing lines, and inspiration for a memorable speech.

Father of the Groom · April 17, 2026
How to Write a Father of the Groom Speech: A Calm, Confident Step-by-Step Guide
A calm, step-by-step guide to writing a father of the groom speech that sounds warm, grounded, and like you — without sounding stiff or sentimental.

Father of the Groom · April 17, 2026
Father of the Groom Speech Template: Fill-in-the-Blank Guide + Examples
A practical fill-in-the-blank father of the groom speech template with wording suggestions, examples, tone guidance, and a full copy-and-personalize framework.

Sibling Speeches · April 18, 2026
Brother of the Bride Speech Template
A practical fill-in-the-blank brother of the bride speech template with section-by-section wording, short and longer versions, toast lines, and lines to borrow when you are stuck.

Sibling Speeches · April 18, 2026
Brother of the Groom Speech Template
A practical fill-in-the-blank brother of the groom speech template with section-by-section wording, short and longer versions, toast lines, and lines to borrow when you are stuck.

Speech Examples · April 21, 2026
Groom Speech Examples: Openings & Toasts
Real groom speech examples — short, funny, heartfelt — plus openings, closings, and the bride section that make a speech actually sound like you.

Speech Tips · April 25, 2026
How to Write a Groom Speech: Structure & Wording
A step-by-step guide to writing a groom speech that sounds warm, confident, and recognisably like you — with structure, wording help, and what to cut.

Speech Tips · May 1, 2026
Groom Speech Template: Fill-in-the-Blank
A fill-in-the-blank groom speech template with structure, wording help, short and fuller versions, and toast ideas that sound like you.

Best Man Speeches · May 16, 2026
Best Man Duties: What the Role Actually Involves
A realistic guide to best man duties — what the role actually involves before and during the wedding, what is optional, and how to support the groom without overdoing it.

Sibling Speeches · May 16, 2026
Brother of the Bride Speech Examples: Funny & Warm
Ten brother of the bride speech examples across warm, funny, short, emotional, older-brother, younger-brother, protective, and polished tones — with notes on why each one works.

Sibling Speeches · May 16, 2026
Brother of the Groom Speech Examples: Funny & Warm
Ten brother of the groom speech examples across warm, funny, short, emotional, older-brother, younger-brother, polished, and conversational tones — with notes on why each one works.